Saturday, February 12, 2011

The Bow That Tied Us Together – Dixie Dog

Twelve years ago my brother insisted that the only thing he wanted for Christmas was a new Australian Sheppard puppy – specifically a black tri colored female. 

As a family we scanned the papers (pre Craigslist of course) and much to my mother’s initial dismay (we already had two dogs on the farm) my brother found a breeder nearby who just had a litter who were ready for new homes.  On a cold and foggy valley morning my dad’s Chevy truck rolled into our driveway with my brother in the passenger seat holding a black ball of fluff.  As Chad walked through the kitchen door holding the puppy in his arms my mom slowly wandered over to him and peered down, ready to raise a skeptical eyebrow at the new responsibility that she secretly knew was going to become her next chore on her never ending list of household to-do’s.  The puppy unwound itself from a curled up ball, looked up at my mom with those big brown eyes and the rest was history – my mother was sold.  The stipulation however, was that the dog – affectionately named Dixie though none of us can recall who thought up the title – was to be an outdoor farm dog whose days were to be spent chasing sheep and guarding the house.  Dogs were meant to be outside, not inside.  The theory almost worked had it not been for a very cold winter and my mother's maternal instincts to keep the puppy comfortable and warm but only as far as the laundry room.  As soon as the days heated up the dog was to be outside.


The days, weeks and eventual months however turned into spring and the dog’s territory inside the house expanded into the kitchen and rooms beyond.  She was taught tricks, easily potty trained with never an accident, learned to respond to commands as if she was almost human and even helped mom with the laundry as she went through the homestead picking up our dropped socks and piling them up.  Ever so quietly Dixie had become a permanent fixture in the Souza household.

Just four short years later two of the Souza kids flew out of the nest to go to college and only one remained, Dixie, standing by to keep mom company as dad logged long days on the ranch.  The clicking of nails on the tile provided comfort to an otherwise quiet residence; the small thud of the dog’s body laying down on the floor became commonplace; the barking to alert of approaching strangers was heard more than our doorbell.  Her three litters of puppies brought spectators from all around – we never kept one but giving them away was like departing with grandchildren with the comfort of knowing they were going to homes where they would provide the same level of joy and comfort their mother had given us.


The years lingered and Dixie’s fixture in the home was more that of a family member than a dog.  She had her own stocking on the fireplace at Christmas, enjoyed regular appointments to the groomers, vacationed with us and even maintained a colorful wardrobe of scarves that mom tied around her neck according to the seasons. 

For twelve years Dixie dog was the bow that tied our family together and this old farmhouse might never be the same without her…Dixie, you will be missed.




Friday, February 4, 2011

Blizzards, Soup Kitchens and Coffee Houses…Oh My

If you were a resident of Southern Ontario this week you might have felt that you were being prepped for Judgment Day.  News stories from all communication mediums were professing the apocalyptic storm on a direct path for Canada, taking with it everything including women, children and yes, even cute puppies.  Much like a sorority semi-formal, watching the build up to the event was much more exciting than the actual occasion…schools and large businesses closed, generators fueled-up and standing by, intense Italian and Portuguese men so eager to use their snow blowers they could almost smell the exhaust fumes…but alas, disappointment quickly ensued.

After an excited anticipation for what the “experts” were calling the worst thing to hit Ontario since the Toronto Leafs (kidding), I was left with nothing to show except for large unopened vats of peanut butter and Costco-sized pallets of water bottles – yep, the storm was a dud.
Now don’t get me wrong here folks – we did receive a fair share of snow and ice (which later had to be shoveled out of my driveway) but altogether the predicted 40cm dumping was in actuality a dusting of about 5cm – just enough to form that perfect front yard snow angel without the worry of a mini-scale avalanche as your Golden Retriever tries to dig you out from what appears to be a treacherous situation…I mean, what else is he supposed to think when you’re laying on the ground flailing your arms and legs?
But I digress.
For those of you whom I haven’t spoken with in awhile, I’m now volunteering at a soup kitchen on Thursday evenings as part of my time with the Young Adults group I’ve joined.  Apprehensive at first I’ve come to enjoy the fellowship with the patrons and I’m continually fascinated with the different stories that everyone has in regards to where life has taken them and how they got there.   For some it’s been relapses into substance abuse, others have no family and simply come for the warm meal and friendship…it’s been a great chance for a step back into humility and a new level of appreciation for all that God has given me.
As tradition dictates the volunteers all trek to Red Brick Coffee House after the kitchen closes at 9:30.  I have also come to enjoy this routine as the group catches up on the week’s activities and discusses weekend plans and current events – amazing how much entertainment a $1.85 cup of coffee can bring you sometimes.
Now for those waiting in dire angst for my next trip to California you need wait no longer.  Saturday I’ll be flying into San Francisco on a direct flight landing at 10:45 a.m. – I’m planning on spending some time in “The City” with friends so if you’ll be in SF be sure to give me a ring (remember, no texting while I’m on my international plan).  Sunday/Monday will be a short stop in Sacramento and then down to the farm for the World Ag Expo and my grandmother’s 80th birthday on Saturday the 12th – a jam packed week but I’m looking forward to the visit.

I’ll end this post with a favorite quote, reflective on my life right now.
"Life is no straight and easy corridor along which we travel free and unhampered, but a maze of passages, through which we must seek our way, lost and confused, now and again checked in a blind alley...But always, if we have faith, a door will open for us, not perhaps one that we ourselves would have thought of, but one that will ultimately prove good for us." - A.J. Cronin
Shoveling out the driveway

Finished Product!

Angela washing dishes before strategically dropping a spoon so I would have to bend over and pick it up.

Tomato Soup and Egg Salad Sandwiches...yum


And Angela again - funny how she wants to be in all of my pictures.

Red Brick Coffee House